As a spiritual director, I particularly feel called to work with people facing major life transitions—those searching for meaning, what nourishes and sustains them, and those searching for greater clarity. As we share our sacred space, I often realize how blessed I am to witness the grace—and feelings of lightness, heaviness, and occasional tears—bestowed on directees during our time together. Sharing important issues in each monthly session, the directee and I are not alone, however. Like most spiritual directors, I invite the presence of a third chair amongst us: the presence of God, the Holy, the Divine Spirit (or whatever designation you prefer).

In this confidential space, in a non-directive way, directees are given the chance to face certain crossroads, or turning points, in their lives, no matter how major or trivial they may seem. Some feel lost as they seek answers to existential and spiritual questions. Through stillness, and a purposeful, peaceful presence, directees are guided through a discernment process that may help them see more clearly. Discernment helps people make important decisions regarding their life purpose, profession, place of living or worship, identities, families, friends, work-life balance, spiritual growth, sexuality, goals, etc.